The screenshot hides the important parts: Is the ignored, unshared folder listed in the “Folders” row? If yes then it can’t in fact be ignored and unshared. If it really is, please provide a screenshot also showing the folders to confirm and get context.
Yes, this is expected. You’ve shared a folder with someone, and they haven’t synced it yet so we consider them less than 100% in sync and offer the optimistic assumption that they are probably working on it (“syncing”).
On a general note: I might have been a bit slow here to grasp what was going on, however it would have helped a lot if you didn’t release the information by pieces: Post full screenshots (like you did in your last screenshot) and describe everything that you hide and might be relevant.