Oh that is sad, but what I seek is whether Syncthing could turn to other accessible instead, since it is stuck on retrying connections to this relay forever, without attempting other relays.
If the problem persists, I agree with bt90, you can always use a free mesh style network app that creates a virtual private LAN over the Internet. Then, the sync becomes a direct ip peer to peer sync.
I use this method on my cell phone to remotely sync with my PC at home.
Fairly off-topic but since it’s been mentioned twice now;
We seem to be talking in the context of China here. Pointing towards VPN-solutions may be a bit tricky and should only be considered while exercising a decent level of caution.
The solution I use provides an encrypted tunnel only it’s not a conventional VPN product that masks your primary IP address. It merely gives you an additional private IP address just for Syncthing. Regular traffic is unaffected and unencrypted as normal.