I know it’s possible to make a shared folder master on a
device, this makes it read only and prevents any changes from remote
devices.
My suggestion is to share this information to all other devices and
locally prevent those devices from editing the folder. (e.g. making it
read only on each local devices and only allow changes to come in from
the master synchting server or other devices which are in synch with the
master)
This would prevent the folders from getting out of synch in the first place.
This is something you can do today using standard file permissions - run syncthing as a separate user, and give only that user write permissions to the folder.