Many, if not all ISPs where I am, assign cgnat IPs which make it impossible for Syncthing to enstablish a direct connection between devices, at the same time, many relays have strict limits (either hard limits, or because there are too many clients connected).
A friend of mine hosts a relay that I’d love to use, but I don’t want to risk my phone going offline if their relay goes offline too. Is there anyway, I can tell Syncthing that if it has to use a Relay, then it must use theirs first and only if that doesn’t work fallback to the relay pool?
Thanks. 