Question : Share files with "people" ?

There’s no “board” to decide anything. Syncthing is an open source project, and basically, any code that is written and deemed useful by maintainers will be merged.

There’s an issue for on demand sync on Android here:

It should be possible to implement this using the existing ignores feature. If you want to implement this, I suggest you figure out a basic concept and post it there, so we can discuss if it will work.