Then your steps as last posted are incomplete. They are not showing when you switch browsers, which you did mention in an earlier version.
This I totally don’t understand. Maybe I still can’t imagine what you’re actually doing when. But I know it sounds overly complicated and what I suggested was a rather minimal workflow. You came up with this complicated browser switcheroo scheme to work around a problem that you are causing yourself. I’m giving you solutions to avoid it entirely, but if you really like to keep doing that ritual, go ahead. But then you’ll likely need to figure out the details yourself.
Syncthing does not try to synchronize directory modification times, see FAQ — Syncthing documentation. If you need that, robocopy or rsync will help (I guess, haven’t checked). Modification times for files should match up though, unless the sync did not actually succeed.
As for “Up To Date”: Syncthing reconciles changes detected in the local files (latest local state) with changes announced by all remote devices sharing the same folder, into what’s called the “global state”. A folder shows “Up To Date” if local state and global state matches. As you have a send-only folder on your LOCAL instance, any possible changes from REMOTE are ignored, thus it will always show Up To Date or Scanning. The folder status on one device says nothing at all about the state of the folders on other devices.
To see whether REMOTE (receive-only) has caught up with LOCAL (send-only), you either need to check folder status on the receiving end, or the device status on the sending end, which summarizes how much REMOTE still needs to sync to become fully Up To Date.
I’ve explained to you numerous times how things work and what you could do to simplify and avoid problems. Take it or leave it, but if you want help on actual issues (not getting to a synchronized state), then you’ll really need to provide details about what it actually shows. I’ve seen no local or global state counts, Out Of Sync item lists, Failed Items, or even folder / device status. We can’t go on troubleshooting like this. It’s just theorizing about what could work how, with no real data points.
Your initial request was “how to start from scratch”, which I guess we’ve shown to be unnecessary. To solve sync issues by different means, we need details about what’s really happening. Simplifying your workflow would help in any case.