# How setup to use ONLY my relay server.
**URL:** https://forum.syncthing.net/t/how-setup-to-use-only-my-relay-server/9847
**Category:** Support
**Created:** [May 23, 2017, 9:26pm UTC](https://forum.syncthing.net/t/how-setup-to-use-only-my-relay-server/9847 "2017-05-23T21:26:46Z")
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### Author:  [@admiralu82](https://forum.syncthing.net/u/admiralu82)
#### Post date: [May 23, 2017, 9:26pm UTC](https://forum.syncthing.net/t/how-setup-to-use-only-my-relay-server/9847/1 "2017-05-23T21:26:46Z")
I have private relay started with -pools="". In both clients i setup Sync Protocol listen address to relay://aa.bbb.ru:22067/?id=dddddW-ddddd-ffff-dddd-ddddd-fffff-ffff-fffff
Also i clear Global and Local Discovery, and Set Using relay
But this clients not see each other? What i doing wrong?
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### Author:  [@AudriusButkevicius](https://forum.syncthing.net/u/AudriusButkevicius)
#### Post date: [May 23, 2017, 10:07pm UTC](https://forum.syncthing.net/t/how-setup-to-use-only-my-relay-server/9847/2 "2017-05-23T22:07:22Z")
Set listen address and remote device address to the relay address.
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### Author:  [@admiralu82](https://forum.syncthing.net/u/admiralu82)
#### Post date: [May 24, 2017, 5:25am UTC](https://forum.syncthing.net/t/how-setup-to-use-only-my-relay-server/9847/3 "2017-05-24T05:25:55Z")
if both clents have listen address releay, also need setup releay in remote device?
How use my relay + public relay but prefer my releay?
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### Author:  [@AudriusButkevicius](https://forum.syncthing.net/u/AudriusButkevicius)
#### Post date: [May 24, 2017, 7:00am UTC](https://forum.syncthing.net/t/how-setup-to-use-only-my-relay-server/9847/4 "2017-05-24T07:00:06Z")
You need to setup the explicit address to connect to (address field in the device editor window), which in your case is a relay.
You cannot make them connect via a public relay if you are not using discovery, as you will not know which relay (out of the many) the other side is connected to.
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### Author:  [@system](https://forum.syncthing.net/u/system)
#### Post date: [June 23, 2017, 7:03am UTC](https://forum.syncthing.net/t/how-setup-to-use-only-my-relay-server/9847/5 "2017-06-23T07:03:07Z")
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